A note on ethics: It is considered highly unethical to aim love spells at any individual, either by name or intent. Just a moment's reflection on how we would feel being targeted in this way by someone we are not interested in or do not know, shows us how this feels. Instead we leave the space open for a beloved to appear.
the cup runneth over... Place a cup, chalice or goblet in the centre of your altar. Take a thick or coloured piece of paper. Use a gold or red or other special pen to write on it the details of the love you want to call into your life. Write from the heart. Be absolutely honest with what matters most to you and be prepared to match what you can offer to what you are asking. Finish with a blessing, kiss, or a tear. Now fold the paper up small and place it in the cup. Leave it there until it is answered.
there's so much room in my life... Think about how much room you would like a relationship to take up in your life and make room for it. This can include spending (lots of) quality time by yourself, doing things that you would like to do with your beloved - long walks, dinner out, evenings by the fire. It can include such things as clearing a physical space in your home for your future beloved's desk/clothes/kitchen things. Once I divided my altar in half and filled only one half of it and left it that way for 6 months, to really feel the space.
let a relationship grow like a tree... Choose a small, decorative box and fill it with love tokens. A silver ring, a chocolate, a love poem, some seeds, a special symbol such as a feather or crystal. Choose a tree and bury the box near its roots, asking the tree to help you bring love into your life as it grows.
walking towards love... This is a conscious meditation where each step you take carries you closer to the love you yearn for. Every step on your solitary walks, in your ecstatic dances, carrying shopping in from the car, climbing mountains or crossing continents. Every step.
moon spells... Sit, stand or dance beneath a full moon, outside and preferably somewhere beautiful. Make up a song or chant that calls in your love, your beloved, your lover. Sing it to the moon until you are gripped by it and the song and moon take over your voice. Ask the moon's blessing and return home and dream deep.
i am perfect love... Nourish yourself with the love you would wish to give to a partner. Fill yourself with the universe's energy, the way you imagine love would fill you. Love with every breath and heart-beat - become a living example of love. Be beloved.